Homosexual Man Kills Old Woman Because He Disagrees With Her Morality -- Strangely, This Is Not Considered a Hate Crime Of course, if she had killed him because she disagreed with his homosexuality, it would be a TV movie of the week and on the front page of newspapers. What's the difference? I'm not sure. 'Hate crime' was always a stupid concept anyway ... as if there is a 'love crime' that is okay. Authorities said Nicholas Gutierrez, 19, made a videotaped confession about the murder of Mary Stachowicz, 51, after her body was found in a crawl space beneath his apartment. He admitted that he became enraged during a conversation with Stachowicz because her questioning of his sexuality reminded him of debates with his mother. They had worked together in the funeral home in the same building as his apartment. Why isn't the gay community complaining about 'tolerance' here? Article Here